Database
db={"customerOrder":[{"_id":1,orderDocument:{accountInfo:{ban:"330650872"}}},{"_id":2,orderDocument:{accountInfo:{ban:"330651099"}}},{"_id":3,orderDocument:{accountInfo:{ban:"330681521"}}}]}
Query
db.customerOrder.aggregate([{$match:{"orderDocument.accountInfo.ban":{$in:["330650872","330651099","330651125","330651561","330681521"]}}},{$group:{_id:null,found:{"$addToSet":"$orderDocument.accountInfo.ban"}}},{"$addFields":{fullList:["330650872","330651099","330651125","330651561","330681521"]}},{"$addFields":{notfound:{"$setDifference":["$fullList","$found"]}}}])