[{_id:"6509e5f504613ddc1d92c62f",matchingHistory:[{color:"red",shape:"square",size:"large"},{color:"red",shape:"square",size:"small"}]},{_id:"6509e5f504613ddc1d92c630",matchingHistory:[{color:"red",shape:"square",size:"medium"},{color:"red",shape:"square",size:"small"}]}]

db.collection.find({$expr:{"$allElementsTrue":{$map:{"input":"$matchingHistory","as":"mh","in":{"$not":{"$and":[{"$eq":["$$mh.color","red"]},{"$eq":["$$mh.shape","square"]},{"$eq":["$$mh.size","large"]}]}}}}}})