Database

[{_id:0,dishes:[{title:0,in_stock:true},{title:1,in_stock:false},{title:2,in_stock:true},{title:3,in_stock:false},],},]

Query

db.collection.update({},[{"$addFields":{"dishes":{"$map":{"input":"$dishes","as":"d","in":{"$cond":{"if":{"$in":["$$d.title",[0,3]]},"then":{title:"$$d.title",in_stock:{"$not":["$$d.in_stock"]}},"else":"$$d"}}}}}}])

Result