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db.collection.aggregate([{$match:{"life.status":true}},{$project:{name:1,life:{"$filter":{"input":{"$map":{"input":"$life","in":{"$mergeObjects":["$$this",{"service":{"$filter":{"input":"$$this.service","as":"service","cond":{$eq:["$$service.active",true]}}}}]}}},as:"life","cond":{$eq:["$$life.status",true]}}}}}])