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db.collection.aggregate([{"$addFields":{"newField":{"$objectToArray":"$container"}}},{"$addFields":{"newField1":{"$map":{"input":"$newField","as":"z","in":{$size:"$$z.v.arr"}}}}},{"$addFields":{"newField":{"$sum":"$newField1"}}},{"$addFields":{"status":{$gte:["$total","$newField"]}}},{$match:{status:true}},{$project:{title:1,_id:0}}])