[{updatedAt:"2021-01-17T16:44:28.824+00:00",vid:[["adfsdfasfd","this is some sample text","https://example.com"],["gfjghjhjgh","this is another sample text","https://example2.com"]]}]

db.collection.aggregate([{$match:{vid:{$elemMatch:{$elemMatch:{$in:["adfsdfasfd"]}}}}},{$addFields:{vid:{$reduce:{input:"$vid",initialValue:[],in:{$cond:[{$in:["adfsdfasfd","$$this"]},"$$this","$$value"]}}}}}])